Trying to ignore the whining of your dissatisfaction inadvertently leads shutting down the wiser part of yourself. Finally as you hit the wall of discomfort, an alarm sounds that change must occur. At this point it may feel like you have no other choice. The game just isn't fun any more.
So hit the pause button on the spin cycle for a moment and take a breath. You don't have to be stuck running in circles. The key is in knowing you have the ability to make choices BEFORE you hit the wall. Whether consciously or not, both the big and small choices you make everyday impact what you experience. Life doesn’t really just happen to you, it’s what you create. Once you get past truth of the cliché, it can be tremendously empowering. Begin noticing what your beliefs are and ask yourself if they are serving you? What do you want to choose instead? What supports your happiness and fulfillment? I’ve heard it said that choice = responsibility = power. And that’s where life gets really interesting. You start looking at what's ahead instead of what’s behind you.